Toughest Tag I Did So Far – ‘Killer Love’ Tag

Lochoe started this killer tag, and the general response from those who did this tag, it’s a F-damn-tough tag to do. This tag is hard to do, especially if you have strings attached (read: in a relationship, married) Another reason is, it requires digging the past (sometimes it can be painful) and having a lot of courage, honesty and truthfulness to complete this tag. Put it this way, there are things we want to forget, and there are things we want to keep to ourselves, right? (and hidden from the rest, forever?)

So, Syam of Aeropama.com tagged me because he spent 4 torturing hours to complete his ‘story’ and he wants me to endure such pain as well. Fine, let me try my very best.

1. How many time have you been in love?
Many times. It can be few times in a day, week, month, year.. with different person everytime haha! Okay I lied. (lying on 1st question, how could I?) The truth is, I have been in many relationships, but I truly fallen in love only once. (NH – No, I’m not ciplak-ing you :P) Well, if you consider those relationships I had when I was young, stupid and horny (I am still horny.. and stupid, I must stress. Haha!) as ‘love’, I lost count. My first ‘love’, I was only 7. It was with this cute girl sitting few rows from me in the class. I traced drawings, coloured them and put it together with my ‘love letters’ to her. I had my so called ‘best moment’ during secondary school, sometimes having few love interests at one time. Once, I was dating 3 girls from the same class. I am not sure up to this day if they knew if they were dating the same guy at the same time. Then, during uni days, I dated myself most of the times ๐Ÿ™‚ Apa, tak percaya? Suit yourself.

2. 3 songs that make you remind of her?
Only one song. This song by Eason Chan. Em, I have new song to keep me company now. Here Without You by 3 Doors Down.

3. What is the romantic thing that you do for her, or she do for you?
I made a birthday cake and cooked for her. Once I bought her a big ass picture/jigsawย puzzle of her horoscope and put together all the pieces. Well, I tried butย end up taking too long, couldn’t finish it on timeย so I gave her the unfinished version and said “Let’s do this together”. Ehe!

4. 3 nicknames she uses to call you?
Dear, Bong, Eh.

5. List 3 places you go with her?
Malls, Gardens, Her place.

6. What is the best memories with her?, (picture is better)
Er, watching movies together? We are both movie junkies, having movies marathon every now and then. The song above, is from a movie we watched together.

7. What is her birthday, if you remember?
I don’t remember. She’s an Aquarius. I am very forgetful. Read my post ‘Forget me not!’ and you will understand.

8. List gifts from her that you like?
I don’t remember any gift from her, if have then all I like haha! As long as it is a gift, I loike! My birthday is coming next month, please prepare me a gift. LOL!

9. How you declare your love to her (man), or how you accept his love (woman)?
I text-ed her, then I called her and then we went out to eat ‘kway teow soup’.

10. How long you take to forget her?
I still keep in touch with her as a friend. Our past? Long forgotten the sour and the bad memories, the goodย  and sweet one I keep it for myself.

11. What is her physical part that you like about her?
Her lips. Kissable.

12. What is she doing right now?
Working her ass off I think. Not working her ass as moulding her ass or anything to do with the ass, but working hard until it feels like your ass is dropping off, I guess. She is a bit of a workaholic. Previously bookaholic.

13. Can you accept her back if she want to?
No. Past is past. I don’t have the ‘quota of 4’ also, too bad.

14. Have you contact her(ex) when you with your partner?
Yes. I am on good terms with most of my ex(s). Make love friends, not enemies. But, some people just cannot forgive and forget? Not my fault if you cannot let go, babe.

15. Have you done something inappropriate with her(ex) before?
Of course not. How could I? Inappropriate is very much relative term. For example, holding hands may be inappropriate for Lochoe, but for Syam Aeropama may be a gesture of love.

16. Did you go out with her(ex), without been known by your partner?
Nope. I never see her for years now. I don’t mind sitting down having a coffee with her, without the need to report to my partner. Why complicate things?

17. 2 things from her(ex) that you keep, without been known by your partner?
None. But, I keep letters, cards from previous relationships (since my young, stupid and horny days) in a small box and my partner knows about it. (She laughs about it. I laugh at her letters and cards so it’s even. It is funny reading things you wrote when you were ‘drunk’)

18. Do you think your relationship with her(ex) is hotter than with your partner?
Hotter? Hmm, if yes, why she is my ‘ex’ now?

19. Do you hide something in your mobile phone from your partner?
I don’t. Then again, I don’t share my mobile contents with my partner. I also don’t talk about my partner in my blog. There are things that I keep to myself.ย ย Got to have someย privacy, personal space, yor!

20. Have you cheated or try to cheat your partner?
Yes, I told her I don’t love her anymore, actually I do.

Updated: Wait, this is confusing. I told her (my partner), I don’t love her (referring to my partner, not my ex) anymore, actually I do. Failed attempt at cracking a joke, because someone misunderstood what I wrote. Sigh!

21. Who should do this tag?
No one, unless you want to do it. Thank me for ending this sadistic tag.

Sekian, terima kasih. Don’t tag me again. :arrow:


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42 Responses to “Toughest Tag I Did So Far – ‘Killer Love’ Tag”

  1. Asha wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 2:56 pm

    good to read tho..but i wont go tro this and do it ๐Ÿ˜› just really nice knwin another side of ya bongkersz


  2. NoktahHitam wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 3:05 pm

    Very original dude!

    Unlike the rest who’s been tagged, they Clearly missed their exes (inCluding me).

    Eat Kway Teow Soup? Modesty is a symbol of great man. You Can become Nabi already like this. Hahaha.


  3. angeles wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 4:59 pm

    this is quite a ‘kaypo’ tag woh… ask so many ex-es questions… ๐Ÿ‘ฟ


  4. lochoe wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:00 pm

    heheheh… waaaaa… bongkerz… jawab.. congrats dude.. u hOOTT!!!

    1. I lost count. My first โ€˜loveโ€™, I was only 7

    what a damn.. since 1st year, u start to like girl?? what an idiot.. haha, i think at 7 , NH, aeropama, still kencing dalam sluar during school days.. wtf..

    5. Her place.

    I think i can guess where.. aiya.. mujur u’ll never get catch by JAIS..

    13.No. Past is past. I donโ€™t have the โ€˜quota of 4? also, too bad.

    well..change ur name dude.. to mohd bong or abdul bong, then u get that 4 quota.. its really simple.. hahaha

    15. Ur answer is unacceptable, nobody will believe it.. trust me.. when i meet u at da 1st time, i already can smell “chicken”..


  5. nono wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:13 pm

    sekian terima kasih, dont tag me again.. wah, sangat straight forward dude..

    hey kita sama.. past is past.. there’s no need to talk about it. that’s why i am kind of a lil bit berat to do this tag. malas mau ingat cus no use to ingat la..

    tapi, buat jak la.. kedong dah ditag tek ๐Ÿ˜›


  6. nono wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:14 pm

    jap but i havent do it la.. tunggu rajin. ๐Ÿ™„


  7. nono wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:17 pm

    jap, i tried to comment on forget me not.. tapi sik dapat comment? kenapa? ๐Ÿ˜•


  8. bongkersz wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:19 pm

    What smell ‘chicken’? You never heard of ‘Air yang tenang jangan disangka tiada buaya?’ or ‘Don’t judge the book by its cover?’ HAHAHA! Dalam kes ni, air tenang tu memang takder buaya ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€


  9. bongkersz wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:20 pm

    I received your comment ๐Ÿ˜›


  10. missmalaysia wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:29 pm

    Hiya bongkersz. I am your ex. Do u remember me or not? After I won the peagent you never called me or sms me. Why oh why? How come I’m not mentioned in this tag too?! merajuk ๐Ÿ˜ฅ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ˜ก :mrgreen: ๐Ÿ˜ˆ


  11. smaelz wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:33 pm

    hehe.. black past revealed?! ๐Ÿ˜ฏ


  12. bongkersz wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:33 pm

    Sorry my ex. Which one is you again? That pretty, sexy, shweeett thing? Sure I remember you.. darling. We had good time, didn’t we? *wink wink!

    Merajuk? Remember I told you the reason I left you is you kuat merajuk? Now, be good and let’s get some coffee when you are not merajuk.. ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€


  13. aeropama dot com wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:51 pm

    dude!definitely you’re player!!! ha3 ๐Ÿ˜† dating 3 girls at the same time… it’s so kool!

    ps: what u did in her place huh? play with telur her youngest brother? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ


  14. Sandra wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 6:58 pm

    so how long did it take u to complete tis tough killer love tag? LMAO! less than 4 hours?


  15. NoktahHitam wrote on Oct 20, 2008 at 7:03 pm

    masuk blog mane2.. ko memang gile sek. Kat blog sendiri a’lim tahap ustaz KLCC. Hahaha.

    aku tau ko ‘goncang’ adek ko slalu ๐Ÿ˜€


  16. aeropama dot com wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 12:01 am

    aku terpengaruh dgn kau & bong la. bila aku masuk sini, otomatik otak aku tune jd sek… wuhuhu

    ps: pasni bagi komen yg intelectual sikit.
    pss: CF not accomplished here. NN sux!


  17. |1f34|-|1r3 wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 12:12 am

    blah la bong…Cong jer lebih…tgk Cam aku ..aku gak yg jawab terus terang…. ๐Ÿ˜€


  18. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 8:58 am

    Aku jujur, mana ada Cong weh! Ko semua lupa.. jawapan pun pendek giler macam tak nak buat jer ๐Ÿ˜€


  19. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:01 am

    player apa nya. that was during secondary school.. cannot consider dating la.. hahahaha!

    watched movies ar, i mentioned it already.

    ps: ko ni, entri aku yang suci murni macam ni pun ko relate dengan seks..dekat blog sendiri sungguh alim ๐Ÿ˜›


  20. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:02 am

    less than 4 hours ๐Ÿ˜› 1-2 hours? i didn’t keep track of the time. will try to do your tag later. ๐Ÿ˜€


  21. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:03 am

    ustaz KLCC alim ke? ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†

    aeropama memang suka buat kote kat blog orang.. ๐Ÿ˜› nanti we revenge at his blog hhahaaahaaa!


  22. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:06 am

    aku rasa blog aku dengan NH Clean jer. suci, murni.. tiada unsur-unsur yang kurang sihat. memang Cukup sesuai untuk bacaan umum. ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€


  23. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:17 am

    Eheh.. missmalaysia definitely not from my past.. ๐Ÿ˜€


  24. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:19 am

    it’s damn hard writing the post ๐Ÿ™„ ๐Ÿ™„ i sure don’t want to go through it again.


  25. bongkersz wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:21 am

    Still missing your ex dude? Kuat juga ilmu pengasih your ex ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›

    Kway Teow Soup sedap weh.. That place served great Kway Teow Soup, it’s a small hawker stall near Skudai Parade.


  26. myadlan wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 11:03 am

    hi dude. first time here.
    nice blog.
    ok sounds like spam. btw memang tough la tag ni.
    arap2 no one will tag me with dis one. malas nak dedahkan rahsia diri banyak sgt.. huhu


  27. |1f34|-|1r3 wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 11:26 am

    btol duh..aku makin pelupa skang..mana ada Chong..let’s term it as bad relationship…of Course la aku Cepat lupa… :mrgreen:


  28. mrcoolku wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 12:48 pm

    ur answer is totally humor although it is true.

    btw, i like the way u handle you ex. still can have a cup of coffee. why complicated it? nice one.


  29. missmalaysia wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 7:19 pm

    bongkersz, :XO: you still remember me har? ๐Ÿ™„ ๐Ÿ˜ณ haiya, i thought you forgot all about me already. Apalah, r u sure u r da one that dumped me har? I think it was me who dumped you becos you flirt with all the girls! Can’t blame me for merajuking rite? Anyway, when r u going to ajak me out for our kopi huh?


  30. missmalaysia wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 7:21 pm

    ok… if i’m not fm the past, that means i’m not an ex rite? … which means i’m from the present lor ??? :XO: :XO: :XO:


  31. aeropama dot com wrote on Oct 21, 2008 at 9:25 pm


    dude! aku masuk blog kau terus jadi sewel jap dowh. sebab cara kau tulis & cara NH komen buatkan aku jadi kote kat sini.

    dem! after this i’ll try to be as I am, a good boy! *patting myself* ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ‘ฟ


  32. NoktahHitam wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 12:19 am

    Got chat box already!


  33. sootsprite wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 2:42 am

    i just love your attitude!
    ahaha, still can be friends huh


  34. pattirmina wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 9:18 am

    abang bong. *hahaha*

    changed my link. WP it is now. =)

    *totally unrelated to this post.* lol


  35. bongkersz wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 1:41 pm

    hai adik patt ๐Ÿ˜› ( :mrgreen: :mrgreen: )

    ah really? ok i will update my blogroll. welcome to the dark side!! (screw blogspot!! hahahaha!)


  36. bongkersz wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 1:43 pm

    sure can be friends ๐Ÿ™‚ past is past right? leave it behind and move on. so, you are still a friend of your ex? ๐Ÿ˜€


  37. sootsprite wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 1:52 pm

    actually, i dun want to be friends wif my ex~
    and i’m not even trying
    it hurts u know even tho i dun have any intentions to make up wif him
    once it’s over, we’re done
    hahaha :vangry:


  38. bongkersz wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 1:56 pm

    Hurray! โžก


  39. bongkersz wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 2:04 pm

    Ehe! Not to say purposely want to become friend or enemy, can take somewhere in between ๐Ÿ˜› Haha! Anyway, we deal on our problem in our own ways ๐Ÿ™‚ Bad breakups normally very hard to reconcile in future. You are right, once it’s over, it’s done.



  40. bongkersz wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    I know you will come up with this line. Why girls love this ‘who dumped who 1st contest?’. It feels good to be the one in control? ๐Ÿ˜› It doesn’t matter who dumped who, let me know if you are free for coffee yeah! :XO: :XO:


  41. bongkersz wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 2:07 pm

    well, you can lie ๐Ÿ˜› bukan orang tau pun. hahaha! senang, tak payah buat terus. thanks for dropping by, bro!


  42. bongkersz wrote on Oct 22, 2008 at 2:08 pm

    Em.. can only have coffee if she agrees. I don’t mind ๐Ÿ˜€


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